Lisa Nave is the founder of www.alloparent.org, a social networking website that provides parents and families with local, hands-on services provided by other parents. The services and support are free because they are swapped or shared—just like people would do with their neighbors, friends and family members. Lisa is also a therapist, writer and the mother of two boys. Here’s what this Mill Valley, Calif., mom has to say:
“Though I try to remember to be thankful every day—for my two sons, Jake and Aidan, who bring such love and purpose and joy to my life; for the health of my family and friends; for the privilege of living in the beautiful Bay Area; for the meaning and fulfillment my work gives me—this time of year, more than any other, focuses my attention on gratitude, and on being mindful of the thousands of things, both big and small, that I have to be thankful for.
In the course of a day, I am thankful for my morning coffee, and that my kids got dressed and had breakfast and made it out the door to school with their teeth and hair brushed, and for Obama’s presidency, and the Internet, and snacks from Trader Joe’s (especially the kettle corn), and the writing of Thich Nhat Hanh, and clean drinking water, and pink peonies, and kissing my boys when they come home from school, and making homemade pizzas with them for dinner, and reading with them before bed, and having the last couple of hours of the day to myself to be quiet and contemplative or to watch Mad Men.
But moreover, Thanksgiving is a celebration that provides perspective, and I find that with this gift of perspective, I can more easily expand my gratitude beyond the small structure of my personal world out to the vastness of the universal world. And that is a great relief, because it allows me to set my preoccupations aside and to open up to the mysteries and wonders of the world. And that is truly something to be thankful for.” |