TFG's Must Have It List

SEX, LOVE AND PARENTHOOD
Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Domestic and the Exotic is the foremost essential read for all parents and parents-to-be. This life-changing book will open your mind—and your heart—to the ever-evolving relationship between love and desire, the dire need for couple preservation and how to get your love—and lust—life back on track for good. ($11, www.amazon.com)

Click here to win a copy of Mating in Captivity.

Read our fascinating interview with Ester Perel, author of Mating in Captivity.

VELVET FOG
Send your family and friends into a tizzy with this mouth-watering red velvet cake from Doughboys Bakery in Los Angeles. A favorite of Oprah and Gayle, this sinfully delicious dessert is the perfect way to treat your sweeties to a little slice of heaven.
($35, www.doughboys.net)

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IN THE MOOD
Can't get no satisfaction? Find your groove the natural way with Whole Foods Premium Libido Formulas that support healthy sexual function and libido. The formula, Charmed for Women features Maca and catuaba, which is known to increase energy levels and improve sexual pleasure. Not to mention, its counterpart, Charged for Men features Horney Goat Weed (hehe!), Tongkat Ali and Yohimbe to support testosterone production and sexual function. Vitamin popping was never so much fun.
($19.99, www.wholefoodsmarket.com)

PASSION PLAY
Have you lost that loving feeling? Schedule a play date with your mate and prepare to have more fun in bed thanks to these pleasure-enhancing products from Pure Romance. Who says toys are only for the kids?
(Prices vary, go to www.pureromance.com)

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UNDERNEATH IT ALL
Breastfeeding gets a makeover thanks to the sexy bras from Condessa. Pair with these sleek low-rise panties and you'll feel pretty, oh so pretty, day and night.
($75, Cassandra Lace Brief Set, www.condessainc.com)

Click here to win a fabulous Condessa nursing bra.

BOTTOMS UP!
What's celebrating without a good sparkler? Our favorite is Lot 25 from Cameron Hughes Wine. The medium-bodied bubbly dazzles with white peach, honeysuckle juxtaposed with orange blossoms, hints of green apple, pear and even caramel and biscotti. Cheers to the pop life! ($21, www.chwine.com)

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